Monday, June 18, 2007

Loss of My Father






This past Friday, my father was diagnosed with advance stage liver cancer. The cancer spread to about 90% of his liver and there was nothing medical that could be done. At this point he already spent almost a week in the I Critical Care Unit. My dad, mom, sister, and I decided that we didn't want him to suffer anymore and have him pass on to the next life the natural way, so we decided to do a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) order. He was then transferred to hospice where they would make his passing be as comfortable as they can.




Sundary morning around 0730 PST, he passed on to the next life. He would have been 84 years old this coming Saturday, June 23rd. Although it was so sudden, at least he didn't suffer for very long. Before he passed away, he was able to see his brand new grandson James Ryan "JR" Apuya Peper aka Red Peper and see me graduate from college. He died happy. In fact, he died this morning when my mom, sister, and I stood over him and prayed. He took his last breath right after we said, "Amen." We are planning to have the Funeral on Saturday, June 23rd, on his birthday. I will send out another email when the preparations are complete.He may be gone from this world physically, but his love and spirit will remain in our hearts forever.




Thank you everyone for your prayers and support through this tough moment.

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